I’m a born-again Christian, 40 something homemaker from Missouri. I’m married to my husband and best-friend Mark, and mother to six children, mother-in-law to three and grandmother (Grammy!) to Lilly!
I had lap Roux-en-Y Gastric Bypass (RNY) on July 27, 2004. My weight on the day of surgery was 250 pounds and my current weight (9/22/07) is 152 pounds. I do fluctuate a pound or two, but have stayed right in this very close weight range for nearly two years now. So this is my final weight and where my body seems to want to be. I did, for a few months, reach 143 pounds, but did not maintain that weight (obviously); and as my surgeon said I would – I bounced up a bit and leveled off. I’m fine with my weight where it is and at 5′ 5.5″, this puts me right about a normal BMI (or close enough for me).
Before surgery I was a Type II diabetic with uncontrolled high blood pressure, GERD, high cholesterol and assorted aches and pains associated with obesity. Post-op: all of that is gone! Praise God! However, staying healthy post-op is not without its struggles, because supplementing and getting the right supplements and in the right amounts is a challenge, or so I’m finding. Thus one reason for this blog – to help others know that yes, WLS can help reverse many pre-op co-morbidities, but it can also bring on a whole new set of health concerns, if you are not diligent in your supplementing! Take your all of your supplements faithfully!
The fact that I’m a a born again Christian provides me with a unique perspective in relaying my WLS journey, as WLS is controversial enough as it is; but it seems especially so in Christian circles. I believe with God all things are possible. I believe that God can use the tool of WLS to help Christians (and even non-Christians) to overcome obesity. God works in mysterious ways, and I do not believe in putting God in a box! He can certainly use the hands of a surgeon to heal us!
Like most morbidly obese people, I dieted my way to obesity. I happen to be one of those who did not gorge and binge on thousands of calories per day to get obese, I did so by only eating 1600 calories per day!! Yes – you read that right: 1600 calories. That’s it. One reason is because of my years of starvation dieting, where I ate next to nothing, that messed up my already genetically slow metabolism. Shocked? You’d be surprised at how many obese people are so, not because of the large volumes of food they consumed, but of similar situations to mine.
Of course, there are also plenty of folks who did overeat and got obese from doing so. I honestly do not have statistics on how many became obese from gorging and binging and how many from genetically slow/messed up metabolisms who really didn’t eat thousands of calories per day to become obese. In the end: obesity is the result.
I only mention this at all, because why we became obese is important to avoid falling into old habits and regaining weight down the road. Part of the recovery from obesity is knowing how and why you became obese. WLS is only a tool – and you need to learn new and healthy lifestyle habits to truly overcome obesity for good. If you are one who eats for emotional reasons, then you need to know that and deal with those emotions in a more constructive and healthy way. If you are one like me, who just has a really, really slow metabolism, then exercise is essential and never skipping meals and making sure to eat enough is important to keep our bodies from thinking it’s starving (this is true of any post-op, but especially so for folks similar to me).
So this is me in a nutshell – and yes, I can be a bit nutty. I have a goofy sense of humor and love to laugh! I also like to think. I love people and my main spiritual gift is encouragement. I strive to love everyone – just as Jesus said we should do. I normally listen to contemporary Christian music, but happened to catch country artist Toby Keith’s new song “Love Me if You Can”, and I love it, as I felt it summed me up pretty well….
I’m a [wo]man of my convictions
Call me wrong, call me right
But I bring my better angels to every fight
You may not like where I’m goin’
But you sure know where I stand
Hate me if you want to
Love me if you can